An Effective, Modern Alternative to Sex Therapy

When sex feels challenging, from mismatched desire to routine intimacy or physical concerns, OurRitual combines expert-led sessions with personalized, self-guided practices. Get the support you need to strengthen your sex life, without stigma, high costs, or waitlists.

Bring Back the Spark
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how it works

Support That Helps You Feel Confident in Your Sex Life Again

OurRitual blends Expert guidance with personalized, science-backed practices, giving you the tools to strengthen your sex life when it feels routine, mismatched, or difficult to talk about.

Attend weekly Expert sessions

Get matched with a relationship Expert who understands sexual challenges and works with you in short, flexible sessions that fit naturally into your life.

Take control of your connection

Pair your sessions with personalized, science-backed practices that fit into your life, helping you talk openly, rebuild confidence, and explore desire together.

Bring back passion, together

With ongoing support, you’ll move past obstacles and rediscover new ways to connect, so your sex life feels exciting, fulfilling, and alive again.

Attend weekly Expert sessions

Get matched with a relationship Expert who understands sexual challenges and works with you in short, flexible sessions that fit naturally into your life.

Take control of your connection

Pair your sessions with personalized, science-backed practices that fit into your life, helping you talk openly, rebuild confidence, and explore desire together.

Bring back passion, together

With ongoing support, you’ll move past obstacles and rediscover new ways to connect, so your sex life feels exciting, fulfilling, and alive again.

Our impact

Science-Backed and Effective

91%
feel improvements in their relationship after 4 weeks
88%
feel more hopeful about their relationship
94%
feel less anxious about their relationship challenges
91%
feel improvements in their relationship after 4 weeks
88%
feel more hopeful about their relationship
94%
feel less anxious about their relationship challenges
our benefits

What You’ll Get From OurRitual

Identify the issues

Pinpoint the specific issues you’re each facing with the help of an Expert.

Rediscover strengths

Gain fresh appreciation for you and your partner’s overlooked qualities with proven tools.

Break dysfunctional dynamics

Work with your Expert to help break old, dysfunctional habits.

Empathy & resolution

Learn new strategies for conflict resolution that help you empathize with one another.

Restore trust

Use communication and vulnerability to reestablish trust.

Additional resources

Exercises and video content help streamline your progress.

Identify the issues

Pinpoint the specific issues you’re each facing with the help of an Expert.

Rediscover strengths

Gain fresh appreciation for you and your partner’s overlooked qualities with proven tools.

Break dysfunctional dynamics

Work with your Expert to help break old, dysfunctional habits.

Empathy & resolution

Learn new strategies for conflict resolution that help you empathize with one another.

Restore trust

Use communication and vulnerability to reestablish trust.

Additional resources

Exercises and video content help streamline your progress.

Why people love ourritual

Hundreds of 5-Star Reviews

Marcela was wonderful with us and very good at what she does. OurRitual service was convenient and offers a lot for what you pay for.

Sarah
March
26

We have really learned a lot about ourselves and each other with the app and from our expert.

Wendy
February
04

When our first therapist wasn’t a match we were assigned a new one who has been great. OurRitual app is fairly simple to use.

Elizabeth
January
31

Good content and interactions have been great.

Justin
January
21

Love the videos and progressive pathways

Anonymous
December
17

I've been very impressed with our therapist and the actionable steps she gives us each week to work on.

Anonymous
December
12

App is easy to use. Education is structured in a nice progression and the expert is incredible!

Anonymous
November
02

The work with rituals helped us a lot in understanding each other and ourselves. We are much better at navigating issues that arise now.

Anonymous
September
25

We learned how to communicate and empathize so much more after using this. Dean is amazing and would absolutely use this again!

Anonymous
September
24

Our therapist is excellent.

Anonymous
September
12

Do You Have Any Questions?

How Does It Work?

You’ll meet with a dedicated relationship Expert in short, flexible sessions that fit your schedule. Between sessions, you’ll get guided practices and tools designed to help you reconnect emotionally and physically.

What Makes OurRitual Different?

OurRitual goes beyond intimacy, it’s designed as a full relationship support service for every stage of partnership. Unlike traditional sex therapy, it’s affordable, accessible, and built for everyday couples. You’ll get expert-led sessions plus personalized practices that help with real challenges,  from rebuilding desire and communication, to managing stress, parenting, and keeping connection alive.

Do We Need to Be Struggling to Benefit From This?

Great question! OurRitual is not considered to be classic couples therapy. Our program uses elements of couples therapy, such as face-to-face meetings with trained professional therapists from various states, who can offer a wide variety of evidence-based therapeutic interventions. Differences between couples therapy and OurRitual include the possibility of individual, relationship-focused work, shorter sessions (forty vs. fifty minutes), and an emphasis on relationship education and skill acquisition. Our app also offers a host of tools for growth in-between sessions. We do offer deeper work and support for severely distressed couples who need it.

Is This Couples Therapy?

OurRitual is not considered classic couples therapy. We offer an effective, modern alternative, guided by licensed Experts and built for everyday couples. Our Experts include clinical psychologists, marriage and family therapists, and social workers. Each Expert completes specialized training, in addition to their professional experience, to ensure they can provide tailored, effective support.

Can This Help if Sex Feels like a Chore?

Absolutely. Many couples reach a point where intimacy feels routine or disconnected. OurRitual provides expert guidance and personalized practices to help you reconnect, communicate openly, and bring back the spark.

How Long Does the Program Take?

That’s up to you. OurRitual is structured in “Pathways” designed around your relationship goals. Most couples spend 1–2 months in a Pathway, and many choose to continue as they deepen their connection.

How Do We Get Started?

It’s simple: answer a few quick questions, get matched with a relationship Expert, and begin your first session. You can have your first session in less than 24 hours, and you’ll be on your way to reconnecting right away.

Don’t Just Settle for Routine Sex. Feel Alive, Together.

Take the first step toward rebuilding confidence, exploring desire, and bringing back passion with OurRitual.

Start Your Journey