You Love Your Partner, but Sex Can Feel like a Chore?

You’re not alone. Many couples face mismatched desire, routine intimacy, or conversations that end in silence. With weekly expert-led sessions and personalized practices, OurRitual provides the relationship support you need to reconnect and bring the spark back.

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how it works

Support That Makes Intimacy Easier Again

OurRitual blends Expert guidance with personalized, science-backed practices, giving you the tools to reconnect when sex feels routine, mismatched, or hard to talk about.

Attend weekly Expert sessions

Get matched with a relationship Expert who understands intimacy challenges and works with you in short, flexible sessions that fit naturally into your life.

Take control of your connection

Pair your sessions with personalized, science-backed practices that fit into your life, helping you talk openly, rebuild closeness, and rekindle desire.

Reignite passion, together

With ongoing support, you’ll grow more confident and connected, so intimacy feels natural, joyful, and exciting again.

Attend weekly Expert sessions

Get matched with a relationship Expert who understands intimacy challenges and works with you in short, flexible sessions that fit naturally into your life.

Take control of your connection

Pair your sessions with personalized, science-backed practices that fit into your life, helping you talk openly, rebuild closeness, and rekindle desire.

Reignite passion, together

With ongoing support, you’ll grow more confident and connected, so intimacy feels natural, joyful, and exciting again.

Our impact

Science-Backed and Effective

91%
feel improvements in their relationship after 4 weeks
88%
feel more hopeful about their relationship
94%
feel less anxious about their relationship challenges
91%
feel improvements in their relationship after 4 weeks
88%
feel more hopeful about their relationship
94%
feel less anxious about their relationship challenges
our benefits

What You’ll Get From OurRitual

Identify the issues

Pinpoint the specific issues you’re each facing with the help of an Expert.

Rediscover strengths

Gain fresh appreciation for you and your partner’s overlooked qualities with proven tools.

Break dysfunctional dynamics

Work with your Expert to help break old, dysfunctional habits.

Empathy & resolution

Learn new strategies for conflict resolution that help you empathize with one another.

Restore trust

Use communication and vulnerability to reestablish trust.

Additional resources

Exercises and video content help streamline your progress.

Identify the issues

Pinpoint the specific issues you’re each facing with the help of an Expert.

Rediscover strengths

Gain fresh appreciation for you and your partner’s overlooked qualities with proven tools.

Break dysfunctional dynamics

Work with your Expert to help break old, dysfunctional habits.

Empathy & resolution

Learn new strategies for conflict resolution that help you empathize with one another.

Restore trust

Use communication and vulnerability to reestablish trust.

Additional resources

Exercises and video content help streamline your progress.

Why people love ourritual

Hundreds of 5-Star Reviews

Marcela was wonderful with us and very good at what she does. OurRitual service was convenient and offers a lot for what you pay for.

Sarah
March
26

We have really learned a lot about ourselves and each other with the app and from our expert.

Wendy
February
04

When our first therapist wasn’t a match we were assigned a new one who has been great. OurRitual app is fairly simple to use.

Elizabeth
January
31

Good content and interactions have been great.

Justin
January
21

Love the videos and progressive pathways

Anonymous
December
17

I've been very impressed with our therapist and the actionable steps she gives us each week to work on.

Anonymous
December
12

App is easy to use. Education is structured in a nice progression and the expert is incredible!

Anonymous
November
02

The work with rituals helped us a lot in understanding each other and ourselves. We are much better at navigating issues that arise now.

Anonymous
September
25

We learned how to communicate and empathize so much more after using this. Dean is amazing and would absolutely use this again!

Anonymous
September
24

Our therapist is excellent.

Anonymous
September
12

Do You Have Any Questions?

How Does It Work?

You’ll meet with a dedicated relationship Expert in short, flexible sessions that fit your schedule. Between sessions, you’ll get guided practices and tools designed to help you reconnect emotionally and physically.

What Makes OurRitual Different?

OurRitual is more than a program for intimacy, it’s a full relationship support service. Unlike traditional couples therapy, it’s affordable, accessible, and designed for everyday couples. You’ll get expert-led sessions plus personalized practices that help with the real challenges relationships face, from reigniting passion and improving communication, to balancing parenting, reducing stress, and keeping love alive.

Do We Need to Be Struggling to Benefit From This?

Not at all. OurRitual supports couples at every stage, whether you want to overcome mismatched desire, prevent intimacy from feeling routine, or simply bring more playfulness and passion into your relationship.

Is This Only About Sex?

Not at all. While many couples join to improve their sex life, OurRitual is a full relationship support service. We help with the everyday challenges couples face, from improving communication and rebuilding trust, to managing stress, navigating parenting, and keeping emotional closeness alive.

Is This Couples Therapy?

Great question! OurRitual is not considered classic couples therapy. We offer subclinical support, guided by relationship Experts and rooted in science-based practices.

Our Experts are licensed professionals, including clinical psychologists, marriage and family therapists, and social workers. Every Expert who joins OurRitual undergoes additional specialized training, on top of their professional experience, to ensure they can provide tailored, effective support to our members.

Can This Help if Sex Feels like a Chore?

Absolutely. Many couples reach a point where intimacy feels routine or disconnected. OurRitual provides expert guidance and personalized practices to help you reconnect, communicate openly, and bring back the spark.

How Long Does the Program Take?

That’s up to you. OurRitual is structured in “Pathways” designed around your relationship goals. Most couples spend 1–2 months in a Pathway, and many choose to continue as they deepen their connection.

How Do We Get Started?

It’s simple: answer a few quick questions, get matched with a relationship Expert, and begin your first session. You can have your first session in less than 24 hours, and you’ll be on your way to reconnecting right away.

Don’t Just Settle for Silence in the Bedroom. Feel Alive Together Again.

Take the first step toward reigniting passion and deepening your connection with OurRitual.

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