Build Boundaries Without Building Walls

OurRitual helps you build healthy boundaries through weekly online sessions and personalized tools, so you can feel close to your partner while staying true to yourself

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What Are Healthy Boundaries 
in a Relationship?

Dr. Logan Levkoff, Relationship Expert and Sexuality Educator

how it works

Support That Fits Real Couples

OurRitual combines weekly Expert sessions and personalized practices designed to help you establish boundaries that strengthen your relationship and honor your needs.

Get Matched With The Right Expert

Answer a few quick questions, and we'll connect you with a Relationship Expert who gets your unique dynamic and provides guidance tailored to your partnership

Weekly Sessions That Fit Your Life

Flexible online sessions make it easy to prioritize your relationship without overwhelming your schedule. Meet from the comfort of your home, day or night.

Grow Closer, Every Single Day

Access personalized practices and a curated content library suited to your relationship's unique needs and challenges, allowing you to grow and stay connected between sessions

Get Matched With The Right Expert

Answer a few quick questions, and we'll connect you with a Relationship Expert who gets your unique dynamic and provides guidance tailored to your partnership

Weekly Sessions That Fit Your Life

Flexible online sessions make it easy to prioritize your relationship without overwhelming your schedule. Meet from the comfort of your home, day or night.

Grow Closer, Every Single Day

Access personalized practices and a curated content library suited to your relationship's unique needs and challenges, allowing you to grow and stay connected between sessions

our benefits

What You'll Gain Together

OurRitual helps couples build boundaries that create space for connection, mutual respect, and the freedom to be your authentic selves.

Deepen Your Connection

Discover your relationship’s unique strengths and challenges and take steps forward with the help of a trained Relationship Expert

Honor What Matters to You

Learn to protect your time, energy, and values while tightening your connection to your partner

Navigate Differences with Respect

Learn practical strategies for honoring each other's boundaries and realigning your needs

Express Your Needs with Confidence

Learn to communicate what you need in ways that invite understanding rather than defensiveness

Build Lasting Intimacy

Develop tools and practices that help you maintain emotional and physical closeness

Tools for Every Day

Access personalized exercises and video content to help you stay connected and keep growing between sessions

Deepen Your Connection

Discover your relationship’s unique strengths and challenges and take steps forward with the help of a trained Relationship Expert

Honor What Matters to You

Learn to protect your time, energy, and values while tightening your connection to your partner

Navigate Differences with Respect

Learn practical strategies for honoring each other's boundaries and realigning your needs

Express Your Needs with Confidence

Learn to communicate what you need in ways that invite understanding rather than defensiveness

Build Lasting Intimacy

Develop tools and practices that help you maintain emotional and physical closeness

Tools for Every Day

Access personalized exercises and video content to help you stay connected and keep growing between sessions

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“For the first time in years, I feel like we're actually hearing each other instead of just talking past each other. The change has been incredible.”

– Sam
OUR REVIEWS

Why People Love OurRitual

Thoughtful, relationship-centered care trusted by people seeking ongoing support, meaningful progress, and professionals who meet them where they are

Do You Have Any Questions?

How Does OurRitual Help Couples Set Healthy Boundaries?

OurRitual is designed for couples learning to balance closeness with individuality. 

We provide practical tools and guided support to help you communicate your needs, respect each other's limits, and build boundaries that strengthen your bond rather than creating distance.

What If We're Not in Crisis?

You don't need to be in crisis to benefit from OurRitual. 

Many couples use it to strengthen what's already good and prevent small issues from becoming bigger ones. Think of OurRitual as relationship maintenance, not just repair.

Is This Couples Therapy?

OurRitual isn't traditional couples therapy.

OurRitual makes relationship support more accessible by operating outside the traditional therapy and healthcare system.Instead, we’re a relationship support program guided by trained Relationship Experts and rooted in science-based practices.

Our Experts include clinical psychologists, marriage and family therapists, and social workers. Each Expert goes through a meticulous vetting process and specialized training to ensure they provide effective, approachable, and personalized support for couples' real-life needs.

Do Both Partners Need to Participate?

No.

You can use OurRitual even if your partner doesn't. We offer tools for both individuals and couples, so progress can start no matter where you are in your journey. Individual work on boundaries can create positive change in your relationship, even if your partner isn't ready to join yet.

How Flexible Is Scheduling?

Very! 

Our sessions are flexible and available for scheduling 24/7, making it easy for you and your partner to connect when it works best. Plus, our self-guided practices allow you to continue at your own pace between sessions.

How Long Does It Take to Start Seeing a Change?

Many couples report feeling a shift in their communication and connection within their first few sessions. Because change is continuous, we recommend committing to at least a few months to build lasting habits and see sustainable growth.

What If Setting Boundaries Causes Conflict?

It's natural to worry about this. 

Your Relationship Expert will help you navigate these conversations with care, teaching you how to express your needs in ways that invite understanding. Many couples find that the temporary discomfort leads to deeper respect and connection.

How Do We Get Started?

Answer a few quick questions, get matched with a Relationship Expert, and schedule your first session. Couples can get started within 24 hours of signing up.

Ready to Get Closer?

Explore personalized relationship support, designed to help you love fully while staying true to yourself

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