Do you ever feel more like coworkers than partners?

In the rush of family life, it’s easy to lose connection. With weekly online sessions with a relationship Expert and self-guided tools, OurRitual helps you rebuild closeness and bring back empathy, intimacy, and joy.

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how it works

Support that helps you feel like a couple again

OurRitual combines Expert sessions with science-based digital exercises, designed to help you feel closer, improve communication, and strengthen your relationship as you navigate parenting together.

Get Matched with a Relationship Expert

We’ll pair you with an Expert who understands the unique challenges couples face while parenting and offers guidance designed to strengthen your partnership.

Weekly Sessions That Fit Your Life

Meet with your Expert in short, at-home sessions. Book when it works for you, so support fits naturally into your routine.

Take Control of Your Progress

Between sessions, access personalized exercises that help you strengthen communication, rebuild intimacy, and feel more connected as partners.

Get Matched with a Relationship Expert

We’ll pair you with an Expert who understands the unique challenges couples face while parenting and offers guidance designed to strengthen your partnership.

Weekly Sessions That Fit Your Life

Meet with your Expert in short, at-home sessions. Book when it works for you, so support fits naturally into your routine.

Take Control of Your Progress

Between sessions, access personalized exercises that help you strengthen communication, rebuild intimacy, and feel more connected as partners.

Our impact

Real Results for real Parents

Members who work with OurRitual report feeling less stressed, more connected, and more confident in their parenting.
92%
feel more supported by their partner in parenting
87%
noticed improvements in their family dynamics after 4 weeks
93%
feel less stressed about their parenting challenges
92%
feel more supported by their partner in parenting
87%
noticed improvements in their family dynamics after 4 weeks
93%
feel less stressed about their parenting challenges
our benefits

What you’ll get from OurRitual

Identify the issues

Pinpoint the specific issues you’re each facing with the help of an Expert.

Rediscover strengths

Gain fresh appreciation for you and your partner’s overlooked qualities with proven tools.

Break dysfunctional dynamics

Work with your Expert to help break old, dysfunctional habits.

Empathy & resolution

Learn new strategies for conflict resolution that help you empathize with one another.

Restore trust

Use communication and vulnerability to reestablish trust.

Additional resources

Exercises and video content help streamline your progress.

Identify the issues

Pinpoint the specific issues you’re each facing with the help of an Expert.

Rediscover strengths

Gain fresh appreciation for you and your partner’s overlooked qualities with proven tools.

Break dysfunctional dynamics

Work with your Expert to help break old, dysfunctional habits.

Empathy & resolution

Learn new strategies for conflict resolution that help you empathize with one another.

Restore trust

Use communication and vulnerability to reestablish trust.

Additional resources

Exercises and video content help streamline your progress.

Why people love ourritual

Hundreds of 5-star reviews

I got a new job in another state, when we tried getting professional help it turned out to be super complicated with schedules and regulation. Ritual’s model definitely simplified things for us.

Rachel, 35

For years we’ve had this recurring fight. Tonight when it came up, we took a step back and rewatched the video together. It changed EVERYTHING! Turned an old argument into a good conversation.

Veronica, 35

I thought he’d be a different kind of father and the disappointment really affected our connection. Ritual helped me see his side of the story without turning my back on myself.

Taylor, 40

Everyone kept telling me I should leave, It felt so lonely. Our expert Naomi helped us realize what the infidelity meant for us with zero judgment. Thank you!

Michelle, 45

We needed some help getting important messages across but we really didn’t want to feel judged for our lifestyle. Finding something as private as this has been a true blessing.

Maria, 27

The pain and shame I’d feel each time I got jealous was too intense to talk about with my girlfriend. Having the option to do relationship work on my own changed everything.

Jessie, 27

My husband would never have gone to a traditional therapist. With Ritual, he feels comfortable, he can do things on his own terms.

Nia, 32

The shame I felt for what happened made me act in ways that only made the distance worse. I didn’t believe an online program could make a difference, but it did.

River, 28

We had a tough time reconnecting physically after what had happened. I felt frustrated and lonely. The videos helped me with practical tips to open up and stay calm.

Jerome, 38

Sophia was great as well as the tools provided.

Tri
March
28

Marcela was wonderful with us and very good at what she does. OurRitual service was convenient and offers a lot for what you pay for.

Sarah
March
26

The availability of time and appointments, our expert is really helpful and friendly

Zaid
March
24

We have really learned a lot about ourselves and each other with the app and from our expert.

Wendy
February
04

When our first therapist wasn’t a match we were assigned a new one who has been great. OurRitual app is fairly simple to use.

Elizabeth
January
31

We like our counselor, Victoria, which I think is very beneficial, in that we feel comfortable speaking with her. We also like the flexibility of switching to another counselor if need be. We like the flexibility of scheduling meetings with our schedules.

Ana
January
28

Good content and interactions have been great.

Justin
January
21

I enjoy doing the growth work and talking with our expert. Ritual also feels unique compared to other platforms or services. Though I have not tried it, it is also exciting to see new features being added like the check-ins.

Alexander
January
16

Our expert, Naomi, was the biggest factor. She was insightful, professional, and gave us the feeling she had a dedicated interest in helping us grow as a couple and improve our interactions. I also particularly enjoyed and appreciated the reflection/journaling component after the lessons which allowed me to shift my perspective.

Kunal
January
11

Love the videos and progressive pathways

December
17

I got a new job in another state, when we tried getting professional help it turned out to be super complicated with schedules and regulation. Ritual’s model definitely simplified things for us.

Rachel, 35

For years we’ve had this recurring fight. Tonight when it came up, we took a step back and rewatched the video together. It changed EVERYTHING! Turned an old argument into a good conversation.

Veronica, 35

The pain and shame I’d feel each time I got jealous was too intense to talk about with my girlfriend. Having the option to do relationship work on my own changed everything.

Jessie, 27

I thought he’d be a different kind of father and the disappointment really affected our connection. Ritual helped me see his side of the story without turning my back on myself.

Taylor, 40

Everyone kept telling me I should leave, It felt so lonely. Our expert Naomi helped us realize what the infidelity meant for us with zero judgment. Thank you!

Michelle, 45

We needed some help getting important messages across but we really didn’t want to feel judged for our lifestyle. Finding something as private as this has been a true blessing.

Maria, 27

My husband would never have gone to a traditional therapist. With Ritual, he feels comfortable, he can do things on his own terms.

Nia, 32

The shame I felt for what happened made me act in ways that only made the distance worse. I didn’t believe an online program could make a difference, but it did.

River, 28

We had a tough time reconnecting physically after what had happened. I felt frustrated and lonely. The videos helped me with practical tips to open up and stay calm.

Jerome, 38

Do you have
Any questions?

What is OurRitual?

OurRitual is a service that helps you overcome relationship struggles so your bond with each other remains fulfilling, passionate and healthy.

We wanted as many people as possible to have access to fantastic relationship support. The kind that fits their lifestyle, circumstance and schedule. So we created flexible programs using proven interventions, where you can be seen and understood, break the negative cycles and reignite that special thing in the core of your connection.

How Does It Work?

During our program you’ll work with
a trained professional therapist who can offer a wide variety of evidence-based therapeutic interventions. In between your sessions, you’ll receive weekly in-app videos and exercises that target your specific needs and goals. In between your sessions, you’ll receive weekly videos with tried-and-tested knowledge and exercises focused on your specific needs and goals.
The sessions with your dedicated Expert will help you integrate what you learned into everyday life.

Is this Couples Therapy?

Great question! OurRitual is not considered to be classic couples therapy. Our program uses elements of couples therapy, such as face-to-face meetings with trained professional therapists from various states, who can offer a wide variety of evidence-based therapeutic interventions. Differences between couples therapy and OurRitual include the possibility of individual, relationship-focused work, shorter sessions (twenty vs. fifty minutes), and an emphasis on relationship education and skill acquisition. Our app also offers a host of tools for growth in-between sessions. We do offer deeper work and support for severely distressed couples who need it.

Can this Help With Everyday Parenting Struggles?

Absolutely. From bedtime battles to big emotions, OurRitual gives you practical tools and guidance you can use in real-life parenting moments.

How Long Does the Program Take?

That’s up to you. We believe in a clear end game, so we divided our content into units we call Pathways, and we match you with the Pathway that suits your goals and needs. Most members take about 1-2 months with each Pathway, and they usually move on to at least one more once they are done.

Stronger as Parents. Closer as Partners.

Take the first step toward better communication and deeper connection with OurRitual.

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