Therapy’s Not a Blind Date. Try Before You Commit.

You shouldn’t have to guess who’s right for you — or your relationship. OurRitual offers personalized relationship support, starting with a one-time matching session to connect you with the expert who fits your goals, needs, and schedule.

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The Path for a Better Relationship Starts With the Right Expert

Not every relationship expert is the right fit, and that’s okay. This one-time Matching Session helps you find someone who truly gets your goals and your dynamic, before you commit.

Comprehensive Assessment

Deep dive into your relationship patterns and challenges

Expert Matching

Paired with the right experts for your specific needs and style

Actionable Insights

Clear understanding of your next steps and path forward

Full App Access

Weekly exercises, tools, and exclusive relationship content

Science-Backed Tools

Proven techniques and resources to strengthen your bond

Future Credit

$79 credit toward subscription if you choose to continue

Identify the issues

Pinpoint the specific issues you’re each facing with the help of an Expert.

Rediscover strengths

Gain fresh appreciation for you and your partner’s overlooked qualities with proven tools.

Break dysfunctional dynamics

Work with your Expert to help break old, dysfunctional habits.

Empathy & resolution

Learn new strategies for conflict resolution that help you empathize with one another.

Restore trust

Use communication and vulnerability to reestablish trust.

Additional resources

Exercises and video content help streamline your progress.

Real Talk From Our Experts

Our diverse network of nearly 200 Experts come with years of training, experience, and dedication to bring our members compassionate care in every session

Naomi Dardik

MSW

Naomi Dardik

MSW

Jayta Spitzalak

LMHC, LPC, Psychotherapist

Jayta Spitzalak

LMHC, LPC, Psychotherapist

Dean Dampney

Holistic Counselor & Psychotherapist

Dean Dampney

Holistic Counselor & Psychotherapist

Carmen Yoong

Masters in Counseling

Carmen Yoong

"Relationships are hard. But that's also where people usually grow the most, heal the most, and actually learn what it means to be loved and to love as well. I believe you deserve support in that process."

Carmen Yoong

Masters in Counseling

Rece McGee

LMFT

Rece McGee

LMFT

Gabriela Galavis

ILCSW, Marriage and Family Therapy, MSW

Gabriela Galavis

ILCSW, Marriage and Family Therapy, MSW

Ana Willis

MA, Family Therapist and Parenting Coach

Ana Willis

MA, Family Therapist and Parenting Coach

Shehroz Shahid

Registered Psychotherapist

Shehroz Shahid

Registered Psychotherapist

Yonatan Sinclair

M.A. in Educational Counseling, Couples, and Sex Therapy

Yonatan Sinclair

"It takes a lot of bravery and I really look up to anyone who comes to receive couples support, brave enough to take that step and say 'we need some help'. You deserve to be happy as much as anyone else, and it's within your reach."

Yonatan Sinclair

M.A. in Educational Counseling, Couples, and Sex Therapy

Tricia Bowman

Master Relationship, Marriage, and Life Coach

Tricia Bowman

Master Relationship, Marriage, and Life Coach

Kunhee Kim

Canadian Certified Counselor

Kunhee Kim

Canadian Certified Counselor

Zaid Yusufani

Registered Psychotherapist

Zaid Yusufani

"What OurRitual does is kind of disrupt our way of thinking about relationships. Thus the name 'OurRitual', it becomes a weekly thing where you have to focus your energy on your relationship and your self-improvement, it's a great way to start that habit.

Zaid Yusufani

Registered Psychotherapist

Techniques and Methodology

Approaches To Therapy

Each of our Experts brings a unique background and varied methods to the table, ensuring our members receive sessions matched to their needs.

Psychodynamic Therapy

Psychodynamic therapy encourages participants to more deeply understand how their past experiences affect their current states and lives.

CBT

Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) is a type of talk therapy that focuses on specific tasks and actions that change thinking and behavior in order to manage problems.

Narrative Therapy

Narrative therapy aims to separate the individual from the problem, allowing for a different perspective on problems.

Solution-Focused Brief Therapy

Solution-focused brief therapy is a goal-focused therapeutic approach based on constructing solutions rather than focusing on problems.

Gottman Method

The Gottman Method aims to deescalate conflicting verbal communication, increase respect and affection, and remove barriers.

Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)

EFT is a psychotherapy technique that helps people improve their relationships and resolve emotional issues through emotional exploration and expression.

Psychodynamic Therapy

Psychodynamic therapy encourages participants to more deeply understand how their past experiences affect their current states and lives.

CBT

Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) is a type of talk therapy that focuses on specific tasks and actions that change thinking and behavior in order to manage problems.

Narrative Therapy

Narrative therapy aims to separate the individual from the problem, allowing for a different perspective on problems.

Solution-Focused Brief Therapy

Solution-focused brief therapy is a goal-focused therapeutic approach based on constructing solutions rather than focusing on problems.

Gottman Method

The Gottman Method aims to deescalate conflicting verbal communication, increase respect and affection, and remove barriers.

Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)

EFT is a psychotherapy technique that helps people improve their relationships and resolve emotional issues through emotional exploration and expression.

how it works

The OurRitual Difference

OurRitual combines Expert-led sessions with science-based digital exercises to achieve your relationship goals on your terms.

Start Solo

Begin your relationship journey with personalized guidance from one of our licensed experts. Work on yourself and your approach to the relationship at your own pace.

Build Skills

Learn proven communication techniques, conflict resolution strategies, and emotional intelligence tools through weekly expert sessions and our app.

Partner Joins

When your partner is ready, they seamlessly join your journey. Continue together or maintain individual sessions - whatever works best for your relationship.

Start Solo

Begin your relationship journey with personalized guidance from one of our licensed experts. Work on yourself and your approach to the relationship at your own pace.

Build Skills

Learn proven communication techniques, conflict resolution strategies, and emotional intelligence tools through weekly expert sessions and our app.

Partner Joins

When your partner is ready, they seamlessly join your journey. Continue together or maintain individual sessions - whatever works best for your relationship.

Do You Have Any Questions?

What is OurRitual?

OurRitual is a service that helps you overcome relationship struggles so your bond with each other remains fulfilling, passionate and healthy.

We wanted as many people as possible to have access to fantastic relationship support. The kind that fits their lifestyle, circumstance and schedule. So we created flexible programs using proven interventions, where you can be seen and understood, break the negative cycles and reignite that special thing in the core of your connection.

How Does It Work

During our program you’ll work with
a trained professional therapist who can offer a wide variety of evidence-based therapeutic interventions. In between your sessions, you’ll receive weekly in-app videos and exercises that target your specific needs and goals. In between your sessions, you’ll receive weekly videos with tried-and-tested knowledge and exercises focused on your specific needs and goals.
The sessions with your dedicated Expert will help you integrate what you learned into everyday life.

Is this Couples Therapy

Great question! OurRitual is not considered to be classic couples therapy. Our program uses elements of couples therapy, such as face-to-face meetings with trained professional therapists from various states, who can offer a wide variety of evidence-based therapeutic interventions. Differences between couples therapy and OurRitual include the possibility of individual, relationship-focused work, shorter sessions (forty vs. fifty minutes), and an emphasis on relationship education and skill acquisition. Our app also offers a host of tools for growth in-between sessions. We do offer deeper work and support for severely distressed couples who need it.

How Long Does the Program Take?

That’s up to you. We believe in a clear end game, so we divided our content into units we call Pathways, and we match you with the Pathway that suits your goals and needs. Most members take about 1-2 months with each Pathway, and they usually move on to at least one more once they are done.

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