Going through a breakup or divorce?

You don't have to process this alone. Invest in your healing with 1:1 counseling and clinically-tested tools and exercises that meet you where you are.

You don't have to do this alone. Invest in your healing with 1:1 counseling and clinical tools and exercises that meet you where you are.

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Breakup support, built for your unique journey

Process your past, understand your present, and move towards a better future with personalized relationship care

Speak to a relationship expert

Take steps forward, together, whether that's processing what happened or figuring out what's next

Get to know your patterns

Talk to Ora anytime. It learns your patterns, drawing on real relationship expertise and your own sessions.

Gain access to tailored content

Keep building through exclusive videos and exercises that meet you where you are

Speak to a relationship expert

Take steps forward, together, whether that's processing what happened or figuring out what's next

Get to know your own patterns

Talk to Ora anytime. An AI companion who identifies your habits and helps you through hard moments. Built using leading relationship knowledge and your sessions

Gain access to tailored content

Keep building through exclusive videos and exercises that meet you where you are

There's no "right" way to go through a breakup

Our experts are prepared to work through the things that come up most, like:

Co-parenting dynamics and logistics
Communication patterns
Anxiety about the future
Rebuilding your support system
Preparing to date again
Working through anger, betrayal, and sadness
*Based on OurRitual session data
our approach

Start getting to know yourself again

Get access to exclusive video content and exercises, designed by leading experts in relationship care

Dr. David Roe, Relationship Expert

Dr. Logan Levkoff, Relationship Expert

what you get

What OurRitual includes

Relationship support designed to meet you in sessions, between sessions, and in everyday moments

Expert sessions

Meet one-on-one with a vetted relationship expert over video

Between sessions support

Use OurReflections and Ora to sort through what happened and keep moving forward between sessions

Exclusive pathways

Access science-backed content on moving through a breakup, making sense of the relationship, and finding your footing again

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OUR REVIEWS

Why people love OurRitual

Thoughtful, relationship-centered care trusted by people seeking ongoing support, meaningful progress, and professionals who meet them where they are

Simone is awesome.
Simone is awesome.
Gracie George
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Sep 17, 2026
Found a great therapist
Found a great therapist through this company
OurRitual Subscriber
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Sep 16, 2026
I've been seeing Jimena for about a…
I've been seeing Jimena for about a year now for both individual therapy and couples therapy. My sessions with Jimena have helped me immensely over this past year and I credit these sessions for my relationship surviving and growing stronger. It's honestly been a game changer to have these regular check ins and I plan to keep going for the foreseeable future. Also, I've tried other therapy apps over the years and they were nowhere near as good as this one.
Katie D
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Sep 16, 2026
Our sessions with Jimena B have been…
Our sessions with Jimena B have been truly life changing. It’s been about a year of intense therapy with my husband and now I am Doing one on one sessions. I have never felt more connected to my husband now thanks to Jimena
Pauline
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Sep 11, 2026
If you want change, start here.
OurRitual has made being in a relationship so much easier! Our therapist Gastón is an amazing neutral third party who is kind, patient, understanding, can help us understand each other, help us get inside each other's head, help us be more patient and loving, and help us bridge language and cultural differences. Before we started couples therapy, there was tension at home and we were not happy. Gastón, facilitated by OurRitual, has helped us become happier and kinder and more connected than ever. The company help us when we requested a bilingual English and Spanish speaker. To be honest, the price can be a little bit steep if you don't, or can't, pay a few months upfront for the discount, but I would say it has been worth it to be able to message whenever we need to, flexible scheduling, and the connection and healing we've been able to achieve together. We started seeing results in our relationship within a month. Highly recommended!
OurRitual Subscriber
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Sep 9, 2026
Highly recommend
My husband and I have been on Our Ritual for over a year now and we have made immense progress in our relationship thanks to our wonderful therapist Jimena Burunat. Our sessions with her are intellectual, funny, philosophical and inspiring. She has been instrumental to the well-being of our relationship with each other and ourselves.
Mal
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Sep 9, 2026
It’s great to have a therapist actually…
It’s great to have a therapist actually listen
OurRitual Subscriber
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Sep 5, 2026
Great therapist
Great therapist
OurRitual Subscriber
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Sep 3, 2026
Our couples therapist Hayley was…
Our couples therapist Hayley was amazing. It was clear she cared deeply about us and was very helpful in helping me and my partner learn how to communicate with each other. That coupled with Our Ritual's video content helped out relationship grow immensely. 10/10 would recommend.
Ola Komolafe
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Sep 3, 2026
Experience has been extremely positive
Experience has been extremely positive. Was matched with a person who I feel truly understood by. I feel lighter speaking with them and the whole process has been really calming and easy.
OurRitual Subscriber
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Sep 1, 2026
Noga is the best
Noga is the best! So gifted at helping us through a broad range of challenges. We are so lucky to have her guidance.
Heidi
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Aug 28, 2026
The tools were great
The tools were great. My personal expert provided excellent sessions and great guidance. The online and AI tools are also excellent
Brad Nordeen
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Aug 28, 2026

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Questions? Start here

What if I don't know if I want to get back together?

That's fine. You don't need to decide that before you start. Working through what happened can help you get clearer either way.

How soon after a breakup can I start?

Whenever you're ready. Some members start the same week, others wait months. There's no right time, only your time.

Will my ex know I'm using this?

No. Your sessions are private to you. Nothing gets shared with them unless you choose to tell them yourself.

What if my ex has already moved on?

This is still for you. A lot of members use this time to understand the relationship, process what happened, and figure out what they want next, regardless of where their ex is at.

Is this just for people who want to reconcile?

No. Some members are working toward getting back together. Others are working through the breakup itself. Your expert works with whichever is true for you.

Is what I share kept private?

Yes. Your sessions and anything you write are yours. They're not visible to your ex, even if they're a member too.

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